63% oppose beach segregation plan
by This email address is being protected from spam bots, you need Javascript enabled to view it on Wednesday, 9 July 2008Posted on Saturday, 26 July 2008
Do u think ur children are safe on Family days?
Posted by Ahmed at 09:48 UAE time
You're in a fools paradise if you think that your children are safe on Family days!!
If you think that your under teen sons are safe on the men's side think again!!
The UAE rules that make it difficult for men and women to have their families with them go on to build frustrated men and women.
A frustrated and desperate society is never going to be a healthy place.
How many walls will you build?
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Posted on Monday, 21 July 2008
AD beach segregation
Posted by Shahla Mohd at 08:40 UAE time
To dear expatriate lady, I really feel uncomfortable when I sense some one is watching me. Mostly bachelors come in groups which makes the ordeal worse.
As you suggested my daughters do not even see the stares since they are busy playing but I am worried as hell, if I go out with them when my husband is not free to come with us. Maybe our culture is different from yours. Please check the recent article that Malaysia may also follow ladies only beaches. So there are other countries interested.
I just thought at least on one day we can enjoy the beauty of nature with out fear and discomfort. I am sure 90% of mothers and ladies will agree with me. I sincerely wish Abu Dhabi Govt takes this bold and laudable step.
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Posted on Sunday, 20 July 2008
beach segregation
Posted by expat lady at 15:52 UAE time
The 'bachelors' will stare - there is no escaping that, but mainly they stare and the scantily clad women who, in my honest opinion, deserve to be stared at if they dress scantily in this country.
So, do we have this lovely new beach and then fence it off and build barricades to keep out the very people who built it.
Surely they should be free to use the facilities as well
let us also not confuse the 'expats' and the 'bachelors'
Who are we trying to segregate and who are we trying to protect?
If you or your daughters are being looked at, so what....just ignore the stares and enjoy your time at the beach.
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Segregated Beaches
Posted by Hombil at 15:43 UAE time
Shahla Mohd's comments make a lot of sense.
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Abu Dhabi beach segregation
Posted by S.Qamar Hasan at 12:07 UAE time
Why make the issue belief based. It is simply a matter of morality and modesty. Respecting the culture of the country. Just as one is not allowed to do certain things in other countries. Let's just keep the argument to its social and moral values.
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Posted on Sunday, 13 July 2008
Not sarcastic
Posted by Paul at 10:07 UAE time
Mr. Mohammed,
I'm sorry if you thought my comments were sarcastic. I also don't agree with your statement that 'a person who is not God fearing will do anything, anytime, anywhere, no matter what.' I am not God-fearing (unsurprisingly, I'm an atheist) and yet for some reason I don't think it appropriate to indulge in lewd behaviour on a beach. All I am saying is that if it is the locals who have a problem with the behaviour of the expats here, then it makes sense to keep us apart. By all means, have standards such as no topless bathing and the like. But segregation of the sexes is something that is very alien to most expats in the UAE, and asking us to surrender things like that are tantamount to Western countries forbidding their Muslim inhabitants from following their cultural beliefs.
Segregating nationals from expats and then having one gender segregated day pleases everyone. It ensures that the people of this country never have to worry about being 'oggled' by gangs of men, it keeps the expats happy because they can continue according to their culture without damaging the local culture, and then the gender segregated day ensures that all women, regardless of nationality, are safe.
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AD beach segregation
Posted by Shahla Mohd at 07:41 UAE time
I welcome the authorities move to segregate beaches since it will give more peace of mind to mothers like me having two teenagers who love swimming in the sea and going to public parks.
However, I am against segregation based on nationalities as one gentleman suggested. Mothers are the same irrespective of nationalities and each of us wants our children to be protected from the oggling single men who roam the beaches and public parks in groups.
I am not accusing all are alike that but 95% are a nuisance to families. I am sympathetic to their loneliness but safety and honour of my family too is very important to me.
The best solution would be to have Friday or Saturday (1 day) as family day through out UAE in parks as well as beaches. If Friday is family day in beaches then let Saturday be family day in parks.
On the common day let those who are not bothered about the looks of single men could go to parks and beaches whether male or female. This way the interests of all could be protected.
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Posted on Saturday, 12 July 2008
Segregation
Posted by Frank at 10:15 UAE time
Apartheid is dead. Is this the equivalent in the UAE?
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Posted on Friday, 11 July 2008
Segregated beaches
Posted by Peter Peter at 16:45 UAE time
It is a shame that a few insensitive souls are creating ripples in the harmonious atmosphere.
We have seen that the UAE is doing its best to make life for the expat. as normal and comfortable as possible. The freedom of worship and the freedom to enjoy certain food and drink considered unacceptable by local tradition are cases in point.
While I do not condone inappropriate or indecent behavior in public , perhaps there is a strong case for having beaches and other pubic places like gardens having areas where people from the more liberal societies can feel free to enjoy the company of their friends and family without having to look over their shoulder to see if they are offending somebody.
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Posted on Thursday, 10 July 2008
segregation on Nationality?
Posted by MOHAMMED KALEEMULLAH at 17:54 UAE time
Mr Paul email is not sincere but sarcastic, since it seems he didn't get the point, which I wanted to make. It was because my last comments were not published in full. Anyway, any commoner who visits the beach will find people who are flirting with the rules and exploiting the liberty? You can't justify obscene things in public owing to any reasons or restrictions, however in private life one can do as he is pleased with. I would like to sum up and request these comments to be published, 'a person who is not God fearing will do anything, anytime, anywhere, no matter what.'
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A better form of segregation?
Posted by Paul at 16:02 UAE time
If, as accused, it is the expats who are the problem here, perhaps a better solution would be to segregate on nationality rather than gender.
There should be a section reserved for Emiratis and their families, which obviously should be a better part of the beach in recognition of their status, and then a non-segregated section that is open to everyone. This would ensure that expats who object to sexual segregation, or wish to go to the beach with their friends, can use the beach as they would at home, while protecting the culture and sensitivities of the UAE and its people.
I appreciate that the family is the cornerstone of UAE life but the fact remains that under the immigration system, many expats do not have the option of creating a family to the same extent and therefore more likely to do things as a group of friends of mixed genders, rather than as a family.
There should also be a women only day as well, as they have in Jumeirah Beach Park, which should also continue to be segregated on nationality.
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AD beach segregation
Posted by expat lady at 13:13 UAE time
I live close by and have used this magnificent beach, and I have also been highly irritated by the unwelcome advances of 'single gentleman' - but perhaps employ a team of ladies and men, a visible beach patrol, lots of them - they would act as a deterrent. To deny ANYONE the use of ALL of this lovely new facility would be so very very sad. Imagine not being able to walk/jog/run along the entire length of the beach (if thats what you enjoy doing).
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Beach segregation
Posted by Abdul mateen at 09:55 UAE time
It's good to have separate beaches for men and women, as it would allow respected females to have freedom without obstacles and avoid nuisance of ugly elements.
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Its not too hard to guess, who are opposing?
Posted by MOHAMMED KALEEMULLAH at 09:18 UAE time
There is always a tendency in the expat community to go too far without any consideration for the religion & culture and sensitivities of other people. So, I am for segregation plan, considering old habits die hard.
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Abu Dhabi
Posted by Steve Hawkins at 08:12 UAE time
Can I make a suggestion please. No discrimination is meant but to provide more privacy to women and families, could the Municipality not introduce a small fee to use the beach, much the same as Jumeirah Beach Park in Dubai. This would provide funds for the upkeep of the beach and its facilities. Or alternatively have a fee paying section of the beach and a free section.




